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Surviving God

http://www.amazon.com/Surviving-God-Vision-through-Survivors

Below is an excerpt from today’s Suffering and Survival meditation from the Center for Action and Contemplation.

For a world without misogyny, racism, sexual abuse or violence, the transformation process is a process with ups and downs. flashbacks, and panic attacks.”

Two professors, Grace Ji-Sun Kim and Susan M. Shaw, speak out about surviving sexual abuse.

Theologians Grace Ji-Sun Kim and Susan Shaw show how Jesus is a survivor of violent abuse who leads the way for other survivors to find transformation:  

“For Jesus, the way of God is the way of feeding the hungry, clothing the naked, helping the stranger in a ditch, and demanding equity and justice, whether from judges, religious leaders, or politicians. Surviving with Jesus can redirect our anger, our han, our despair. [3] We can learn to accept ourselves, and we can work to create a better world. Things won’t just be hunky-dory. Transformation is a process. The accurate language for faith is not that “we are saved” but that we are “being saved.”

Susan once heard poet Maya Angelou tell the story of a young man who asked her if she were “saved.” “Are you?” Angelou responded. “Yes,” he replied. “Really?” she countered, “Already?”

Transformation is a process—and for survivors, it’s a process with its ups and downs, flashbacks, and panic attacks. But, as the resurrection confirms, it is the better way; it is God’s way.  

Surviving with Jesus gives us hope that a different kind of world is possible—a world without sexual abuse, without misogyny and racism, and without violence. That’s a world worth surviving for and working toward with faith that in each of us God truly is making all things new.” [4] 

References:   
[1] Thomas Hobbes, Leviathan, chap. 13. 

[2] Adapted from Richard Rohr, Breathing under Water: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps (Cincinnati, OH: Franciscan Media, 2011, 2021), 113–115.  

[3] Han is a concept in Minjung theology, which originated in South Korea; it refers to “an accumulation of the suppressed and condensed experience of oppression.” See Jae Hoon Lee, The Exploration of the Inner Wounds—Han (Atlanta, GA: Scholars Press, 1994), 139.  

[4] Grace Ji-Sun Kim and Susan M. Shaw, Surviving God: A New Vision of God through the Eyes of Sexual Abuse Survivors (Minneapolis, MN: Broadleaf Books, 2024), 195. 

For the complete post see: cac.org/daily-meditations/surviving-with-jesus/

Dec 5 – Trust 102

My quest to better understand and practice trust continues with today’s senryu.

It’s true, I need help.

Being vulnerable

is so hard for me.


brenebrown.com/videos/anatomy-trust-video/

Brene’ Brown employs the BRAVING acronym to explain how she understands trust. The twenty-three-minute video (found at the URL shown above) is well worth the time. In short, the acronym stands for boundaries, reliability, accountability, vault, integrity, nonjudgment, and generosity. Have a pen and paper handy because you will want to take some notes. That said the two most important things for me were:

  • Vault stands for holding confidences, keeping personal information safe and not gossiping.
  • Don’t trust someone who doesn’t trust themself. Brene’ quotes Maya Angelou who said “I don’t trust people who don’t love themselves but say ‘I love you.'” Maya Angelou went on to share an African proverb: Be wary of a naked man offering you a shirt.

In other words, we have to trust ourselves first before we can trust others and be trustworthy to others. Self-love, self-love, self-respect are all critical components of building and maintaining trust.”

Three popular Brene’ Brown quotes:

“We need to trust to be vulnerable, and we need to be vulnerable in order to build trust.”

“Trust is earned in the smallest of moments. It is earned not through heroic deeds, or even highly visible actions, but through paying attention, listening, and gestures of genuine care and connection.”

Vulnerability is the core of shame and fear and our struggle for worthiness, but it appears that it’s also the birthplace of joy, of creativity, of belonging, of love.”

http://www.thedailyshifts.com/blog/25-popular-brene-brown-quotes-on-empathy-shame-and-trust

High Coo – Oct 17 – Black Poetry Day

Gorman in 2021 at the inauguration of Joe Biden delivering “The Hill We Climb

Since 1985, October 17 has been celebrated as Black Poetry Day “to honor all the talented African American poets, both past and present. If you’re a literature enthusiast, poet, or writer — no matter your race — you’ll absolutely love Black Poetry Day where you can celebrate black heritage and history. Black Poetry Day is celebrated in commemoration of the birth of the man popularly referred to as the father of African American literature, Jupiter Hammon, the first published black poet in the United States of America.” See https://nationaltoday.com/black-poetry-day/

Famous black poets include Langston Hughes, Alice Walker, Maya Angelou and more recently Amanda Gorman, pictured above. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amanda_Gorman

Today’s humble haiku: Black Poetry Day

different voices

reveal a loving spectrum

for all to adore

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jupiter_Hammon#/media/File:An_Evening_Thought_-Jupiter_Hammon-_1761.jpg