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About Patrick Cole

Husband, parent and writer. Sharing stories with a little humor and wisdom along the way.

Mindful Sensing

“Let go of those activities that no longer serve.” And I might add, don’t be a slacker nor a martyr. There is a middle way.

Below is the link to Lynn J Kelly’s latest post that helps us better understand how our compulsions and lack of mindfulness are not serving us very well. It’s far better to choose wisely how we focus our attention.

The Joy of Simplicity

Richard Rohr provides another provocative post about the examples provided by Saints Francis and Claire of Assisi.

One quote from the article link below that grabs my attention is:

When we agree to live simply, we put ourselves outside of others’ ability to buy us off, reward us falsely, or control us by money, status, punishment, and loss or gain. This is the most radical level of freedom, but, of course, it’s not easy to come by. Francis and Clare created a life in which they had little to lose, no desire for gain, no debts to pay, and no luxuries they needed or wanted. Most of us can only envy them.

Morty Chameleon

Morty the Misfit, Morty Chameleon, Morty the one-eyed Chihuahua has captured my heart and lifted my spirits. May this musical video bring happiness your way too.

http://www.facebook.com/reel/411441188364931

http://www.facebook.com/watch/hashtag/mortythemisfit?eep=6%2F

https://www.facebook.com/share/r/hUfv5SuSPaVZHsfL/?mibextid=0VwfS7

NO BONNET SONNET

NO BONNET SONNET

not ev’ry itch need be scratched,

not ev’ry egg need be hatched                                   

not ev’ry thought need be spoke,

not ev’ry dream need be woke                  

colors seen on judgment day,

practice or pose your one way                                              

no aura, no tonal vibe,

no ritual, ‘gyptian scribe

which of us doesn’t belong?

wrong question, don’t sing along

let go ego before burst,

don’t forget that she comes first

deep bow to Wilda Tanner

hat tip to Ian Kerner  

Topsoil Myths

The View from Our Front Door photo by author

We could use some good topsoil. So, I’m doing my research and here’s a few pointers from Better Homes & Gardens that I’m considering today.

Topsoil Myths & Misunderstandings

These four common assumptions about topsoil can trip you up, leading you to pay less attention to your topsoil and, thus, harming the success of your garden. Knowing these basics will help you successfully create the best environment you can for your plants.

Topsoil Myth 1: All Topsoil Is Pretty Much the Same

Topsoil can differ dramatically, even in the same yard and from one garden bed to another. All the earth in your yard is made up of sand, silt, and clay in various amounts. The ideal ratio of these three elements allows for good drainage yet holds enough moisture to allow plant roots to access the water they need. Your soil can also vary in pH level, which is a measure of how acidic or alkaline it is; some plants, such as bigleaf hydrangeas, are more affected than others by pH levels, so you may want to tailor your topsoil blend accordingly.

Topsoil Myth 2: The Dirt in My Yard Is Fine the Way It Is

If you recently moved into a home that was previously owned by a skilled gardener, then maybe this is true. But more often than not, the quality of soil around homes—especially newly constructed ones—isn’t the best for plants. It takes time to build up high-quality soil that includes generous amounts of decomposed plants, called organic matter. This is a vital component that gives topsoil good drainage, just the right water-holding capacity, and a loose, easy-to-dig quality. It’s also important for supporting a healthy soil ecosystem of microbes that help plants grow better.

The quickest way to get great garden soil is to purchase it. You can put a 2- to 3-inch thick layer directly on top of existing soil before planting and just let nature do the rest of the work, or you can till it in. On top of that, you can amend your topsoil further with a couple of inches of compost. This can be costly and involve a lot of labor, but it will ultimately create very productive soil.

Topsoil Myth 3: To Always Have Good Topsoil, I Have to Till It Annually

If you’re creating a new garden space and want to till in soil amendments to get everything off to a good start, that’s fine. But after that, it’s best to avoid disturbing the soil as much as possible. For one thing, turning soil brings weed seeds to the surface where sunlight will stimulate them to sprout, so you’ll just be creating more work for yourself to get rid of them. Typically, nature will take care of mixing in organic matter so you really can save yourself the trouble.

Additional tilling may be necessary if your soil becomes very compacted, which means it doesn’t have enough tiny air pockets in it that roots require to establish. You can avoid this by staying off your soil, especially when it’s wet. If you need to walk into a bed to care for plants, you can avoid compacting the soil by creating a permanent stepping stone path you can use for maintenance or temporarily laying down a sheet of plywood while you work.

Topsoil Myth 4: Rich Soil Never Needs Fertilizer

Plants draw the nutrients they need to grow from the soil they’re planted in. Those nutrients usually need to be replenished every so often for the healthiest growth, no matter which type of soil you have. This is especially true for the soil where you grow annual flowers and vegetables, which suck up a lot of nutrients to fuel their rapid growth. Luckily, it’s easy (and inexpensive) to restore nutrition to your soil by adding high-quality compost and/or granular or liquid fertilizer products as needed. If you’re not sure whether you need to add nutrients, a soil test is a quick way to check. To add nutrients and replace organic matter as it breaks down, add 1 to 2 inches of compost to your garden beds in the fall. That way, you’ll be all set come spring and can just add a layer of mulch after cleaning up and planting your beds for the new growing season.” excerpt from 4 Topsoil Mistakes That May Be Hindering Your Garden Success @ http://www.bhg.com/gardening/yard/soil/topsoil/

There’s Always Maintenance

You know, it don’t come easy and then, again, it sometimes comes way too easy.

The man said, “good topsoil will attract everything: native and invasive, desired and undesired, flowers and weeds. So, there’s always maintenance required to remove the unwanted.”

Plant what you want and be prepared to remove what you don’t.

That beautiful field of wildflowers might be happenstance or design or a little of both.

What are you growing today and what are you maintaining?

No Peace for the Wicked

Liar, Liar, Mother Earth on Fire

live by the lie die by the lie

easily misled by sociopaths who cry

war is peace ignorant belie

no justice no peace no shut eye

nature knows that by and by

oceans warm watch fish fry

hoping for the wells to dry

goodbye Goldilocks and die Lorelie


P.S. with thanks for inspiration provided by Isaiah 57, George Orwell, Robert Southey, Heinrich Heine and Thich Nhat Hanh who reminds us:

“We have a seed of anger in us. We have a seed of compassion in us. The practice is to help the seed of compassion to grow and the seed of anger to shrink.”

Stringing Pearls

It’s early morning and I’m looking for pearls to guide me today. Here are three that have helped me already. May they be helpful to you as well.


The principal purpose of memory is to anticipate the future, not to remember the past (Hancock 2009).” Peter Hancock @ peterhancock.ucf.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/12/2012/06/Hancock-Shahnami-2010.pdf

It is the Breath … that reveals life, sustains life, and renews life in every way.Richard Rohr @ cac.org

“Getting angry and making a decision out of anger are not the same thing. That’s why Seneca said that the greatest remedy for your temper was delay. Feeling the feeling and acting on the feeling are separated by a space and the bigger that space, the better the choice we will make.Ryan Holiday @ Daily Stoic