Category Archives: Dharma Bum

Finding Home in Ourselves

“Don’t forget … to call yourself Home.” Kaitlin Curtice

This is a beautiful excerpt from the Center for Action and Contemplation about Kaitlin Curtice’s writing on the sacred legacy of home.

Check out both links identified below. You will be comforted and edified.


http://www.kaitlincurtice.com

Finding Home in Ourselves
 
Author Kaitlin Curtice writes about the sacred legacy of home:  

May we always return to the places where the stories begin, to challenge them, to accept and honor them, and to whisper to ourselves and one another that we are always, always arriving. 

Don’t forget, 
my love, 
to live. 


Don’t forget 
to love yourself, 
all of you, 
from every season 
and every place, 
because you never know 
when they will 
come knocking for 
a cup of coffee 
and an overdue hug. 


call yourself Home

Excerpts from The Departure and the Return

Richard Rohr and the Center for Action and Contemplation offer another provocative post at their Daily Meditation site: cac.org/daily-meditations/the-departure-and-the-return/

Below are a few excerpts that especially interest me, and hopefully you as well.


“We are created with an inner drive and necessity that sends all of us looking for our True Self, our true home, whether we know it or not. This journey is a spiral and never a straight line. …  

We dare not try to fill our souls and minds with numbing addictions, diversionary tactics, or mindless distractions. (We are) found, precisely in the depths of everything, even and maybe especially in the deep fathoming of our fallings and failures. … 

If we go to the depths of anything, we’ll begin to knock upon something substantial, “real,” and with a timeless quality. We’ll move from the starter kit of “belief” to an actual inner knowing. This is most especially true if we have ever (1) loved deeply, (2) accompanied someone through the mystery of dying, or (3) stood in genuine life-changing awe before mystery, time, or beauty. …   

Like Odysseus, we leave from Ithaca and we come back to Ithaca, but now it is fully home because all is included and nothing wasted or hated: even the dark parts are used in our favor. … What else could homecoming be?  

Poet C. P. Cavafy (1863–1933) expressed this understanding most beautifully in his famous poem “Ithaca”:  

Ithaca has now given you the beautiful voyage.  
Without her, you would never have taken the road. 
With the great wisdom you have gained on your voyage,  
with so much of your own experience now,  
you must finally know what Ithaca really means.
[1] “

References:  
[1] See C. P. Cavafy, “Ithaca,” in The Complete Poems of Cavafy, trans. Rae Dalven (New York: Harcourt, Brace and World, 1961), 36–37. Paraphrased by Richard Rohr. 

Mindful Sensing

“Let go of those activities that no longer serve.” And I might add, don’t be a slacker nor a martyr. There is a middle way.

Below is the link to Lynn J Kelly’s latest post that helps us better understand how our compulsions and lack of mindfulness are not serving us very well. It’s far better to choose wisely how we focus our attention.

There’s Always Maintenance

You know, it don’t come easy and then, again, it sometimes comes way too easy.

The man said, “good topsoil will attract everything: native and invasive, desired and undesired, flowers and weeds. So, there’s always maintenance required to remove the unwanted.”

Plant what you want and be prepared to remove what you don’t.

That beautiful field of wildflowers might be happenstance or design or a little of both.

What are you growing today and what are you maintaining?

No Peace for the Wicked

Liar, Liar, Mother Earth on Fire

live by the lie die by the lie

easily misled by sociopaths who cry

war is peace ignorant belie

no justice no peace no shut eye

nature knows that by and by

oceans warm watch fish fry

hoping for the wells to dry

goodbye Goldilocks and die Lorelie


P.S. with thanks for inspiration provided by Isaiah 57, George Orwell, Robert Southey, Heinrich Heine and Thich Nhat Hanh who reminds us:

“We have a seed of anger in us. We have a seed of compassion in us. The practice is to help the seed of compassion to grow and the seed of anger to shrink.”

Stringing Pearls

It’s early morning and I’m looking for pearls to guide me today. Here are three that have helped me already. May they be helpful to you as well.


The principal purpose of memory is to anticipate the future, not to remember the past (Hancock 2009).” Peter Hancock @ peterhancock.ucf.edu/wp-content/uploads/sites/12/2012/06/Hancock-Shahnami-2010.pdf

It is the Breath … that reveals life, sustains life, and renews life in every way.Richard Rohr @ cac.org

“Getting angry and making a decision out of anger are not the same thing. That’s why Seneca said that the greatest remedy for your temper was delay. Feeling the feeling and acting on the feeling are separated by a space and the bigger that space, the better the choice we will make.Ryan Holiday @ Daily Stoic

Two, Two, Two Things in One

Hot & Steamy

this is not triple x

this is my dog’s first dump of the day

large, firm and steaming with its salute to the sun

on this fine spring morning

mid-50s temp at 7:30am

oh, glorious excrement

to honor another opportunity

to process life’s bounty

Forecasters

calendars, like meteorologists,

or even those predicting the apocalypse,

can look foolish when their forecasts ring false

for example, spring begins on March 20

no, not true in Michigan,

calendars say what they say

but in reality

a Michigan spring begins later

oh, sure, in March there may be a sneak peak

but winter returns … to tamp down premature joy

suffering and joy …

the same is true for the other seasons too

each begins with a tease

only to truly arrive

much later than forecasted